Inspired by our Annual Professional Presentation Week (February 12 – February 16, 2024), the CSE Team has created a blog series to highlight important topics related to the various aspects of professional presentation. These will be published throughout the month of February (because one week just isn’t enough!), so stay tuned for more awesome Professional Presentation Content.
In preparation for our famous CSE Small Talk Challenge on Wednesday, February 14, Kristen Babineau, Associate Director, Career Strategies, and MSBA Career Coach, shares her list of recommended small talk topics to AVOID! Check them out:
About Professional Presentation Week: Featuring several events and challenges related to various aspects of professional presentation, including: Professional Attire, Body Language, Interview Preparation, Online Presence, Networking Tips, The Video Interview, Small Talk Challenge, Personal Branding, and more!
About the CSE Small Talk Challenge: Stop by the World Court anytime between 11 am and 2 pm on February 14 to take the challenge and spin the CSE Wheel of Wonders to win awesome prizes!
Kristen’s List of Small Talk Topics to Avoid
In the professional world, making a great first impression is essential, and small talk plays a significant role in shaping initial perceptions. However, not all topics are suitable for every setting, and steering clear of certain discussions can help you maintain a positive and respectful image.
Here are some small talk topics you should avoid as a student:
Health
Talking about personal health issues, aches, and the latest fad diet might seem like harmless banter, but it can make others uncomfortable. Health matters are personal, and not everyone may be willing to share details about their physical well-being during a first encounter. Moreover, discussions about specific health conditions or diets lack the depth needed for meaningful conversation.
Religion
Religion is a deeply personal and sensitive topic. In a professional setting, it’s crucial to recognize and respect the diverse beliefs and backgrounds of your colleagues. Avoiding discussions about religion ensures that you maintain a neutral and inclusive environment. Some religions may still face prejudice, and bringing up this topic without proper context can inadvertently make others uncomfortable.
Politics
Political discussions can be polarizing, especially during election years or times of heightened political tension. The current divide between political parties in the US makes political conversations particularly tricky. People often prefer to keep their political views private, and initiating such discussions in a professional setting might lead to unnecessary conflicts.Instead, consider topics that are more universally relatable, such as hobbies, interests, or industry-related trends.
Gossip
Sharing negative opinions about previous employers or colleagues can create a negative impression of your professionalism. Engaging in gossip about fellow students may come across as immature and unprofessional. Instead, focus on highlighting your positive experiences and achievements in your previous roles. Discussing how you overcame challenges or contributed to successful projects paints a more favorable picture of your professional journey.
Money
Personal finances are considered private matters, and discussing them too early in a professional relationship can be inappropriate. Conversations about salaries, the cost of possessions, or retirement savings can create an awkward dynamic. It’s best to keep financial discussions focused on broader topics related to the industry or profession, steering clear of specific personal financial details.
Relationship Status
Inquiring about someone’s relationship status, such as whether they are married or single, can be intrusive and make them uncomfortable. Personal relationships are private matters, and individuals may not wish to disclose such information in a professional context. If someone voluntarily shares details about their personal life, respond with tact and consideration. However, avoid prying into these matters during initial interactions, as it can detract from the professional tone of the conversation.
Remember, the key to successful small talk in a professional setting is to be mindful of the sensitivities of diverse individuals. By steering clear of these potentially sensitive topics, you create an environment that fosters respect, inclusivity, and positive professional relationships.
